Thursday, July 19, 2007

How many more?

When I got married I thought my life would be bliss. I married the man that I wanted to spend the rest of my days with, the man that I adored, the man that I never wanted to dream of living without.

And now my days are filled with turmoil of how many more days do I have to live like this?

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hugs, Kate.

Lara Croft said...

Hang in Kate, Hugs

Anonymous said...

Can I be invited with my other email address please so I can use my better half here?

Sunshine said...
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kissmekate said...

Thanks for your hugs guys.

Sunshine you are always so sunny! And you are right I will get through this.

This whole experience has made me realise so much about myself and Charlie. We are two entirely different people, with different values and different morals, on different paths.

I am more than happy to go along my path without him because he will never make me happy.

My kids, my family and my friends will make me happy.

Wendy - you should have an invite now :-)

Lara Croft said...

It's funny how you mention paths and values etc. I think part of the reason I am not concerned with "meeting someone" is mainly because of my spiritual beliefs.
I would want someone to understand gods love for us so that they know the difference, does that make sense? It's an important value to me and I don't think going to church is the only way to find it lol. Cos if it is I am gonna travel this road without a man lol.
okay back to bb site, save zach save zach lol

akakarma said...

Thanks, transformation complete!

Determined said...

I once read in a book that it takes between 2-5 years for a woman to get over her husband/partner leaving her.

BUT in the same book, I read that it takes between 5-10 years for a couple to recover from the trauma of infidelity! Isn't that strange?

So Kate don't ever question yourself and your emotional turmoil, etc. You are doing very well. You're just a normal woman.

Determined said...

What I wanted to add before I published the comment, was that if you really want the marriage - then both your hard work and preseverence will make the marriage a lot stronger than it was before. (both, meaning you and your husband)