Why oh why do third persons in marriages believe that their love is the absolute love? Why do they not see the forest for the trees?
Why do they justify their illicit relationships?
Why do they believe that they can give the other person the love that 'they never received' from the spouse?
Why do they believe that their relationship is not based on lies?
Why do they believe that they will live happily ever after?
Why do they believe they can tell you that "you don't know the whole story"?
Tonight I was called "sad, bitter Kate" on another persons blog, a person who has been having an adulterous affair, a person that believes they have the greatest love of all mankind, a person that believes they will be together forever.
Well the stats are against these types of relationships. Less than 10% of adulterous relationships survive once the adrenalin rush and the forbidden lust filled pleasure subsides.
So tonight I might just go and pick up a double barrel shotgun and go and shoot someone in cold blood. I guess I could always justify it by saying "I didn't like what he was wearing" or even "He looked at me the wrong way". But as long as I justify it I guess that makes it right. Doesn't it?
OK.... I agree a little bit different to committing murder. EVERYONE knows that murder is wrong, but why do some people not see that getting involved with someone that is attached is also wrong? Why do some people think it is their right to fuck anyone that they so desire?
The aftermath of infidelity for the betrayed spouse is EMOTIONAL MURDER. Every part of their being is shattered and some people NEVER recover from the hurt of infidelity.
How could ANYONE want to inflict this pain on another human being? Why would you do it?
And in my eyes the person that willingly enters into any form of relationship with a married person, subsequently providing the platform to commit adultery, is no different to the cheater.
Pick up any book on infidelity and they all say the same things. I think they should write a book especially for mistresses to get a true insight into what their relationship is exactly.
But I guess until they take their rose coloured glasses off then they will never see the relationship for what it is.
I need a fucking glass of red.
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I think it just shows how pathetically needy and selfish they truly are Kate..
oh and what am i missing
Who's blog is that! There is a one word answer to your questions- DELUSIONAL! The WS's come out of the fog, many OW's just wander from one fog to the other. I think you could write a great book but it'd be better to move away from the OW and back into life! You are wonderful, they are sad and pathetic- keep repeating it over and over!!! When the anger goes away, all that's left is pity, for all that they do not have and probably never will...
My stbx husband's shit-striss told everyone that such "horrible things" used to happen in our marriage, and that I was such a horrible person. Mind you, I loved my husband with all my heart.
I think that at one point -to justify the affair, both parties (husband and mistress) spoke badly about us.
I think that your mistress may still have that conversation implanted in her illiterate 1/4 brain.
The thing is that these mistresses absolutely live by the bad comments to justify that husband's are not happy with their wives, so in your case - for her, she keeps hope alive. Otherwise she feels used and cheaped-up, and probably wants to seek vengenance!
"Sad bitter kate" oh, I guess you are part of our "bitter bitches club" *rolls eyes*
I'd rather be "sad and bitter" than illiterate, stupid, needy and selfish.
LOL Absolutely.. if bitter means having ones eyes wide open to wrong and right yeah count me in Sol
Geez I was angry last night. I take great offence at being called sad and bitter.
I'd love to say that I hope this person one day goes through the pain of infidelity to understand the pain associated with betrayal, but I would NEVER wish that upon anyone.
Sol these comments were not from the ex-mistress of my husband. It was from a person that reads my blog but rarely comments.
One of the other comments that was directed at me was a comment along the lines of this blogger not commenting negatively on my blog despite having 'itchy fingers'. I cannot tell you how many times I have restrained myself from commenting on this persons blog, but I have resisted the temptation.
And what baffles me is exactly what could be said negatively toward me from a mistress and hold water?
Something like "Get over it" perhaps?
I don't think I will ever understand the mentality of anyone that believes it is OK to be involved in an adulterous relationship.
LOLOLOL - Lara - you've loooong been in the so called bitter bitches club! Don't flatter yourself! Lol!!
Aren't you one of the lonely golden girls? Lol - now that we are within "closed doors" I just can't help but laugh at some of the names these ITS call us.
Ooo and Kate- sometimes I feel like game for some comments of my own on their illiterate blogs
Solaris I don't understand the bitterness these illiterates spew at us. It's not as though we stole their husbands. Why exactly are they bitter at us?
I just wish they were from the same planet as us and spoke the same language, using the correct grammar.
Mate I aint bitching with the illiterates lol Ill just bitch about em you know where lol lol lol
Oh Kate, I'm sorry. I don't know who that was, but whomever they are as you said they are a mistress themselves. Who cares what a TRAMP thinks! I imagine it hurt to see it, but consider the source....
Hugs to you - you are a lady. You deserve respect. I heard a line once....the difference between a lady and a tramp is that a lady knows where to draw the line and a tramp only falls for it...
Weekends thank you. I have missed you :-(
When you read this persons blog there is so much love. I even once left a comment about wanting what she had and now that she had found it never to let it go.
That was before I found out that she was the third person in a marriage.
I have given up trying to work out the way these people think. As my counselor has told me "These women do no think normally because they are aliens."
And in fairness the comment was left as a response to one that I left. I may even write about it because it was all about the lies told in an affair.
Oh Kate, why do you keep us in suspense? Have we ever kept you out of the loop? :(
Where's its-literate's blog? I'm at the edge of my seat!
Solaris this persons blog is far from one of the illiterate commenters that we deal with.
This blog is written by a highly intelligent woman. I LOVE her blog and the way she writes.
I am rather upset today though because there is a post written about me on it.
I'd like to say I hope she reads this and realizes the hurt her words can cause, but hey she's a mistress, one of the wo-pig breed. They have no conscience.
I'm sending you ((((hugs))))
Weekends I will clarify that her comment about me being sad and bitter was in relation to one I left on her blog.
It was harsh, but not attacking.
I called the male a liar and she has defended him. But after I reread my comment I deleted it because I thought it was very harsh sounding.
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