The mistress is a victim

There has been more contact from the mistress...or from her 'friends'.

I wonder if these are the same four 'friends' that sent me those emails last year, the same 'friends' that hacked in to my email account to delete the three emails that were sent to me, the same 'friends' that also hacked in to my statcounter to remove it from my blog, the same 'friends' that hacked into my blog account to delete the comment that the mistress sent me to get me to read her 'tell all' blog, the one that contained intimate details of the affair along with details of my sexual relationship with my husband.

'Friends' just would not be bothered in harassing people that they were not directly involved with. 'Friends' would not be obsessed about a situation that did not involve them. I know my friends would never be interested in stalking the mistress because she did ME wrong. 'Friends' would not hold so much hatred towards someone that they barely knew.

'Friends' would not have any interest or desire to become involved in activites that are ILLEGAL. And furthermore, true 'friends' would not put the mistress in constant jeopardy of being charged with a criminal offence.

Surely these 'friends' must realise they are making it worse for the mistress. This is the sole reason I do not believe for one nano second that it is the 'friends', but whole heartedly believe it is the mistress herself.

So this time 'they' have contacted Charlie's workplace and left another 'karma train' comment, only in the field they had to fill in as thier contact address, they used MY home address.

This time they have sent another 2 nasty and threatening comments to Charlie and me through his blog.

Yes I have passed them on to my local police, but see there in itself lies a problem. Mistress has a friend who is a friend of one of the officers at my local station. As one of the comments sent to Charlie's blog indicated, it is obvious that the information I provide to the police is being passed on to the mistress. That in itself is a CRIMINAL OFFENCE for an employee to leak information about an active investigation, so that has also been reported.

So for the moment Charlie and I laying low. Charlie has made the decision to close his blog down due to the nature of the threats and based on passed behaviours of the mistress we certainly do have reason to be worried.

This woman wants to desperately make herself out to be a victim. Well she is a victim, to a certain degree.

She is a victim of her poor choices. She is a victim of her low morals. She is a victim of her self esteem. She is a victim of the underlying issues that control her life.

But she is NOT a true victim in this situation. SHE made the choices that she did. SHE knew he was married. SHE knew he came back to me, but SHE continued to email and call.

SHE JUST NEEDS TO GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON!!!!!