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I have a choice to make.
Either I choose to continue to live my life
constantly being hurt and let down by my husband,
or I walk away with nothing.
Either way, life sucks.
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- kissmekate
- This blog is my journey through the rollercoaster of emotions experienced when one partner goes beyond the boundaries of marriage. Experience the highs and the lows associated with infidelity, the raw emotion the hurt partner experiences. Who knows how this journey will end....'cause I don't. Come along for the ride and travel the path with me .....it could be an interesting journey!
13 comments:
What's going on? How is he letting you down?
Only you know the answer mate, but we can be here for ya no matter what you decide.
You could never have nothing Kate as long as you have yourself.
Life is all about choices Kate.
The mistress made her choice, rolled the dice and lost.
We will always be here for you, watching your back.
Charlie has let me down again. When something is really important to me he just never seems to get it.
Right now I am hurting BIGTIME, because I struggle with continuing patterns of behaviour.
Littlewing thanks for watching my back. But I no longer have my back open for the mistress or her friends.
Things were going so well. How did he let you down? Is he aware of it? Is your therapist aware?
John he had a work function he told me about approx 3 months ago. I expressed my discomfort in him attending this function, so to overcome the problem he told me he would get me there as a staff member.
He did not bother and just went to the function without a second thought for how I felt about it.
Second thing......he rang his mother from his mobile phone despite us having a rock solid agreement in place that he did not do this.
Our therapist knows and simply could not believe he did either of these things.
It is the same old patterns of behaviour...say one thing but do another, despite consequences.
Hi Kate,
I haven't visited your blog in a little while and so wasn't aware of your concerns regarding me.
Whilst I may have made 1 or 2 small comments to the person you have referred to, it was never anything sensitive or harmful to you.And as far as I know that person has no access to your blog. Although I can see how you could come to the conclusions you have, please believe that I have certainly not done the things you think I have. If I thought it would help I could explain it all to you as I have had to do in the past but I feel that this pattern will just repeat itself at some point and I don't like accusations and having to defend myself. I do understand where you are coming from and why you made the assumptions and came to the conclusions that you did, I know this is all very difficult for you, and I am sorry to have caused you further distress
(even unintentionally) when you already have so much to deal with.
As I have said before my only intention in participating in your blog was at first curiosity to see how the story would end and secondly to offer whatever support I could because I am a firm believer in families staying together if at all possible.
So as I really don't want to be a hinderence to that occurring and you being able to move on, I have made the decision to remove all of my comments and to not visit your blog again after this. I think it would be best if you gave my blog a miss also.
I really do wish you and your family all the best for the future.
Good grief. Not another cell phone call to his Mom. Even I know that's a no-no, and I'm on a different continent :-)
Anon I doubt you will read this comment and ther eis NO WAY IN HELL I am sending an email, but I made no assumptions whatsoever.
I did not once accuse you of giving her details of my blog. YOU emailed her in relation to my email to you. NO ASSUMPTION....it came from YOU.
Geez, Charlie- what's the story? If you're buckling and need support use your therapy!
I'd be hurt by him going to an event HE KNEW I had concerns with.
oh me too, lara. In fact, I can feel the hurt all the way over here.
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