I have had so many people ask me about it, so I thought I would fess up.
The bathroom pic.......it's her bathroom.
However, it was before she purchased the residence so technically speaking it was not hers. And the pic was on the internet and there was no ownership or copyright clause attached to it, so I have broken no law.
OK, OK, I am clutching at straws with my technical details, but I am just so sick of this. I lashed out. I snapped.
Just like a piece of elastic that has been stretched too far for too long.....I snapped!
It was a reaction to something nasty that she once again subjected me to, but it was no excuse. But hey, it is not as though she can be identified from that picture. She has done by far worse to me and Charlie, such as placing a link to my original blog on Charlie's work blog that is linked to his work website (remember he is in a high profile position in our town), so I had around 500 hits a day on my blog from people in my home town reading.
But if you ask her she will tell you that she did not do it. The same as she was not responsible for hacking in to my email account and deleting the emails that the 'friends' sent me. Nor was she responsible for those three phone calls at 10pm whilst we were away, nor was she responsible for all the truly nasty and vindictive comments left throughout blog land attacking me. And of course she didn't set up the profile for Charlie on 'Desperate Wife.com' using a username and password that Charlie often uses, the same ones she knew about.
Oh and whatever would possess me to even believe that she was out to get me sacked from my job? Besides her telling me that she was not going to lay down until I was sacked and also copying me in on the emails that she sends to a department that deals with internal investigation, I do not know where I could possibly get any such idea. It's simply ridiculous, isn't it?
I have stood in this ring for 12 months. Everytime she has given me an uppercut I have stood in that ring and taken it, with very little reaction. But after 12 months of constant pummelling I snapped and lashed out.
The difference is though, at least I have the decency to admit what I did and own up to it. I didn't have to do that, did I?
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You know what I'm really tired of??? Of these mistesses blaming US for situations, which THEY'VE CREATED.
Kate - I understand why you snapped 100%. I've witnessed what you've gone through for the last 12 months with that moron - and I'm on the other side of the world.
HER buddies are the ones going around blogland insulting and stalking us obsessively on OUR blogs when we haven't even done anything to them. I hate to sound upset or make it seem as they're getting to me, but that illiterate bitch who can't freaking spell called me a "nut-twat" on my public blog - and for the life of me, I really have no idea why I'm being thrown in the mess. I'm not in a bitter bitches club - what club is she talking about?
Did you see the other blog?? I have nothing against the moderator, but I can't believe that she would allow that fool to post comments. I really wish that they'd stop.
That is you and me both Sol.
I look at both of our situations and for the life of me I cannot understand it.
Colon has your man, so what is the point of her continuing to harass you?
Mistress was dumped by my husband, and yet she harasses ME. What have I done to her?
I could probably understand it a lot more if it was HIS emails that she hacked into, and HIM that the nasty comments were directed at. But ME?
I don't get it.
What I do get is that both these women have massive issues and unless they address them then neither of them will ever live a happy or fulfilled life.
They have one common thread, they are dishonest and seek gratification. Be it screwing a married man or "getting even" with an innocent person. I am with you sol, that other blog allowed trash on her blog, and then shock horror upset it caused issues??
Must be nice to live in the clouds.
Wow, who wouldn't snap under these circumstances. And this illegal stuff is just way beyond okay. I hope she just stops this soon. I am afraid to say too much because I don't want to experience the wrath of "mistress" on my blog too. I know I checked your husband's blog a few times because I noticed it had lost a lot of entries and I was worried about you both. I figured it had something to do about "she who-shall-not- be- named".
"She who should be on a billboard?", :) You guys have been nice compared to me! You all do not deserve this treatment. Other blog? Shall I try to draw the fire the OW blog? Shall we all collectively set up a shared blog that is devoted to reviling OW's... I'm on a roll!
Kate you don't have to justify what you did.
We all have a breaking point.
I hope it ends soon for you and Sol.
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